I’ve been playing.  I’ve discovered I know the difference between sexy and slutty and a lot of the world has forgotten.  I joined an adult site for a couple of weeks, and without ever intending to, I gave lessons.  I then quit the site.

In two weeks the photo I am using on this post received over 2,000 hits and averaged 165 views per day. I am due to be 62.  I weigh 200 pounds. My email inbox on the site was so full so often I had to delete messages without reading them.

I kept a blog at the site.  People asked if I was a professional writer. One man wrote to tell me that I didn’t write about sex as the other women did. I  told him I DID write about sex, I simply spoke of the who and the why of it, rather than the how of it.

People! Sex isn’t what we do; it’s who we are!!  If we don’t like, love and respect ourselves, we aren’t going to have anything of value to share with another person, or we are going to share something of value without knowing its worth.

My experience was far more positive than negative.  Once I got past the forest of penises and the swamp of vaginas on display, I found some real people who were loving and considerate, and who still had their mentality and humor intact. We laughed at ourselves together.

I decided I was 90% Mary Poppins and 10% Wonder Slut.  While it was nice to let that 10% out to laugh and play, there was no way to allow her to make the decisions in my life.  She had two weeks in the sunshine.  Now she is allowed to have attention 10% of the time and I won’t pretend she isn’t a healthy part of me.

WS, I have found, is the source of my sense of humor. She’s the instigator of my creativity. She’s the silly twinkle in my eyes. While I won’t let her rule my life, there’s no way I am ever going to wish her dead again.

Mary Poppins is a marvelous person; there’s no doubt about it, but it’s Wonder Slut who helps to bring her down to earth where she can accomplish something while she’s here. As Mary offers you the spoonful of sugar to help the medicine go down, WS will fluff your pillow and give you a wink and a reason to want to get well soon.

Have a great day, Folks, and get out there and flirt more often! It’s a most positive energy flow that causes us all to thrive!